My friend Amy shared with me paraphrases of the following teachings and I loved them so much, wanted to share with you also:
“You are not the contents of your life.” Tolle would say.
“if you can observe it, it is not you” Mooji would say.
“This shouldn’t be happening….is that true?” Byron Katie would say.
“Who knows what is good or bad.” An ancient Taoist proverb says.
I’ve chosen other quotes on my blog from Tolle, Mooji, Byron Katie, and the Taoist parable and appended them below.
When you are present in this moment,
you break the continuity of your story, of past and future.
Then true intelligence arises, and also LOVE.
The only way that LOVE can come into your life is not through form,
but through the inner spaciousness that is presence.
LOVE has no form. The world can only change from within.
We are missing what is obvious, what is pure, what is beautiful. But we don’t have to go so far to find this, because the truth is distance-less, it’s here. It’s here; it’s only somehow concealed by distraction. Our eyes move and plant themselves onto transient things. But if the aspiration is inside a human being to grow, to find the truth, then he will find a way and the way will find him.
How do we respond to a world that seems out of control? The world
seems that way because it ‘is’ out of control—the sun rises whether
we want it to or not, the toaster breaks, someone cuts you off on
your way to work. We’ve never had control. We have the illusion of
control when things go the way we think they should, and then when
they don’t, we say we’ve lost control, and we long for some sort of
state where we imagine we’ll have control again.
But suffering isn’t a result of not having control or of things
accelerating. It is a result of arguing with reality. When we
believe our thoughts, we suffer, but when we question them, we don’t
suffer. Freedom is as simple as that. When the unquestioned mind
moves out of its arguments with reality, we move into alignment with
constant change. After all, change is happening anyway, whether we
like it or not. Everything changes, it seems. But when we’re
attached to our thoughts about what that change should be, being out
of control feels uncomfortable.
If there is, in fact, an acceleration of changes, it’s a gift. The
apparent craziness of the world, like everything else, is a gift
that we can use to set our minds free. You can’t free yourself by
finding a “timeless, changeless dimension” outside your own mind.
When you question what you believe, you eventually come to see that
you ‘are’ the timeless, changeless dimension that you’ve been
seeking. Then you may find that you don’t need to navigate a future
at all—that what appears now is all you’ve got, and even that is
always immediately gone. And when you’ve stopped doing war with
reality, you ‘are’ what changes, totally without control. That state
of constant change is creation without limits, efficient and free
and beautiful beyond description.
Insights from the parable Who Knows What’s Good What’s Bad:
This parable is such a beautiful illustration of why it’s relevant to suspend judgment, conclusions and assumptions about anything. Judgements and the like don’t reflect the bigger picture. We don’t always know in the heat of any moment, what is good what is bad. What is a blessing, what is a gift, what is a challenge in the moment that provides further expansion for us later. We don’t always know, but we can remain open. We can lay aside the impulse to make any seeming fact mean anything. We can trust that the nature of all things is continually unfolding – and perhaps find a lot more ease in this open and receptive place.
Those of you who follow this blog, know we recently had a puppy die suddenly in our home. There was plenty of “this shouldn’t be happening” being felt. There was so much serendipity around this little guy and his transition. And while I was grieving I put all my biggest worries on the back burner. I grieved and to some extent I still do. But meanwhile, I forgot to take those big worries off the back burner.
Another little baby came to us from a rescue group in SoCal. That’s Abby Rose you see at the top of this post.
As my friend, Luana reminded me, Life turned left to go right. Life is actually always turning right, it’s we who have gone left and abandoned the truth that our good is always there, sometimes as yet unseen, but it’s there. Some times it waits for us to catch up and trust, some times you are scooped up in the arms of grace whether you’d momentarily lost your faith or not. That’s because another word for Grace is Love, the foundation of the Universe. I can try to buck that current that is back of all things, but not for long. Thank God for that!