http://simplyblessed.heartsdeesire.com/2007/05/29/feeding-the-lover/ I have fallen between the cracks and landed in the spaces where love never fails... Wed, 08 Feb 2012 03:37:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ http://simplyblessed.heartsdeesire.com/2007/05/29/feeding-the-lover/#comment-86 Sat, 25 Aug 2007 18:44:42 +0000 http://simplyblessed.heartsdeesire.com/2007/05/29/feeding-the-lover/#comment-86 Thanks for your comments Shawn. Yes they can become a comfortable pattern. Or as What the Bleep illustrated, the default neural pathway. But we can always build new neural pathways – it’s part of the glory of being physical. Bryon Katie has said: “It’s good that it hurts, pain is the signal that you are confused, that you are in a lie.”

]]> http://simplyblessed.heartsdeesire.com/2007/05/29/feeding-the-lover/#comment-84 Sat, 25 Aug 2007 01:15:17 +0000 http://simplyblessed.heartsdeesire.com/2007/05/29/feeding-the-lover/#comment-84 Yes! Choosing loving, supportive thoughts vs. negative, damaging ones! At one time, I’d “choose” those negative thoughts automatically, perhaps not realizing I had a choice. Now that I’m more aware, I’ve noticed that those negative thought can have a very seductive voice or whisper…and in that seductive voice they speak a relative truth: “you are used to me, you know me, you are comfortable with me” and if I listen for much time at all, I’ve been caught by them. Not that I can’t get out, but it takes strength and the courage to listen and act on new (and less familiar) beliefs.

]]> http://simplyblessed.heartsdeesire.com/2007/05/29/feeding-the-lover/#comment-5 Tue, 29 May 2007 16:18:54 +0000 http://simplyblessed.heartsdeesire.com/2007/05/29/feeding-the-lover/#comment-5 [...] post today, Feeding the Lover, is just one example of her [...]

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